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Originally published at Chamber . You can comment here or there.

Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test…

5 - the Observer

Thanks for taking the test !

you chose BZ - your Enneagram type is FIVE (aka “The Thinker”).</p>

“I need to understand the world”

Observers have a need for knowledge and are introverted, curious, analytical,
and insightful.

How to Get Along with Me


  • Be independent, not clingy.
  • Speak in a straightforward and brief manner.
  • I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts.
  • Remember that If I seem aloof, distant, or arrogant, it may be that
    I am feeling uncomfortable.
  • Make me feel welcome, but not too intensely, or I might doubt your
    sincerity.
  • If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because
    it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place.
  • don’t come on like a bulldozer.
  • Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people’s loud music,
    overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.

What I Like About Being a FIVE


  • standing back and viewing life objectively
  • coming to a thorough understanding; perceiving causes and effects
  • my sense of integrity: doing what I think is right and not being influenced by social pressure
  • not being caught up in material possessions and status
  • being calm in a crisis

What’s Hard About Being a FIVE


  • being slow to put my knowledge and insights out in the world
  • feeling bad when I act defensive or like a know-it-all
  • being pressured to be with people when I don’t want to be
  • watching others with better social skills, but less intelligence or
    technical skill, do better professionally

FIVEs as Children Often


  • spend a lot of time alone reading, making collections, and so on
  • have a few special friends rather than many
  • are very bright and curious and do well in school
  • have independent minds and often question their parents and teachers
  • watch events from a detached point of view, gathering information
  • assume a poker face in order not to look afraid
  • are sensitive; avoid interpersonal conflict
  • feel intruded upon and controlled and/or ignored and neglected

FIVEs as Parents

  • are often kind, perceptive, and devoted
  • are sometimes authoritarian and demanding
  • may expect more intellectual achievement than is developmentally appropriate
  • may be intolerant of their children expressing strong emotions



Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

The Enneagram Made Easy

Discover the 9 Types of People

Harper
SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages

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You are not completely happy with the result?!
You chose BZ

Would you rather have chosen:

  • AZ (THREE)
  • CZ (ONE)
  • BX (NINE)
  • BY (FOUR)</div>

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    I'm a FOUR! :D

    Apparently I'm very fucking sensitive.

    I need time alone to process my feelings and thoughts.



    # If I become irritated when I have to repeat things, it may be because
    it was such an effort to get my thoughts out in the first place.

    # Help me to avoid my pet peeves: big parties, other people’s loud music,
    overdone emotions, and intrusions on my privacy.

    Really? I didn't know this about you. ;p

    I think I was channeling the Rat. (But after a week in Paris with her and her sister playing Peacemaker...really...what is one to expect?) And in truth, I probably fall somewhere between 5 and 9.

    9 - the Peacemaker

    Thanks for taking the test !

    9 - the Peacemaker
    you chose BX - your Enneagram type is NINE (aka "The Mediator")

    "I am at peace"

    Peacemakers are receptive, good-natured, and supportive. They seek union with others and the world around them.

    How to Get Along with Me

    * If you want me to do something, how you ask is important. I especially don't like expectations or pressure.
    * I like to listen and to be of service, but don't take advantage of this.
    * Listen until I finish speaking, even though I meander a bit.
    * Give me time to finish things and make decisions. It's OK to nudge me gently and nonjudgmentally.
    * Ask me questions to help me get clear.
    * Tell me when you like how I look. I'm not averse to flattery.
    * Hug me, show physical affection. It opens me up to my feelings.
    * I like a good discussion but not a confrontation.
    * Let me know you like what I've done or said.
    * Laugh with me and share in my enjoyment of life.

    What I Like About Being a NINE

    * being nonjudgmental and accepting
    * caring for and being concerned about others
    * being able to relax and have a good time
    * knowing that most people enjoy my company; I'm easy to be around
    * my ability to see many different sides of an issue and to be a good mediator and facilitator
    * my heightened awareness of sensations, aesthetics, and the here and now
    * being able to go with the flow and feel one with the universe

    What's Hard About Being a NINE

    * being judged and misunderstood for being placid and/or indecisive
    * being critical of myself for lacking initiative and discipline
    * being too sensitive to criticism; taking every raised eyebrow and twitch of the mouth personally
    * being confused about what I really want
    * caring too much about what others will think of me
    * not being listened to or taken seriously

    NINEs as Children Often

    * feel ignored and that their wants, opinions, and feelings are unimportant
    * tune out a lot, especially when others argue
    * are "good" children: deny anger or keep it to themselves

    NINEs as Parents

    * are supportive, kind, and warm
    * are sometimes overly permissive or nondirective

    Renee Baron & Elizabeth Wagele

    The Enneagram Made Easy
    Discover the 9 Types of People
    Harper SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pages



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